Tender mercies are blessings that we may just overlook - particularly if we are going through something really hard. They are abundant in our lives. I remember a time when we were trying to help our teenage son, Benjamin. He was so rebellious at the time. The only thing that kept me going was a gratitude journal. I wrote in it faithfully for months. I forced myself to look for the blessings - or tender mercies - that I had been given.
I honestly know that as I have since gone through the pain of losing him, and now losing Jade as well, that the only thing that has kept me from completely giving up is counting my blessings... and trying to see how these experiences can benefit me and my family.
Some of my greatest blessings are:
* A husband who is loving, kind and loyal. He is my best friend. He has stood by me no matter what. I am grateful to have him share this life journey with me.
* Our children are a source of great joy to us. We are so pleased to see them progress in their testimonies of the gospel. They are truly unique. They have all taught us important life lessons.... and how to be better people. We are so grateful to be their parents. We love them more than words can say.
* I am grateful for our Lord and Savior. I am grateful for the gospel of Jesus Christ. I am grateful for my dear, loving Heavenly Father who is so patient with me!
There are so many things to be grateful for. I have many, many more than these. But the point of it all is - we have blessings. All of us do. I am convinced that we all have trials... though some have far greater burdens to bear than others. But I know that looking at our blessings can certainly help us endure the hardships, and find joy along the way.
Gin read a book this summer about living in the moment - instead of letting our egos get in the way. We all have stories that we tell ourselves... about our past, whether we are victim etc. The only way to really have joy is to let the past go (so it doesn't determine how we feel about things now) and to absolutely engage in the present.
So, if life seems to be tough, count your blessings. Look for the tender mercies that you surely have.
1 comment:
Nancy, thank you for your inspiration and courage. I would love to know the name of the book Gin read that you mentioned in this blog. I love you guys dearly and pray for you often.
Your searching and seeking for enlightenment does bless and help others, it has blessed me. I look forward to being in your home again to someday share these things with you. lots of love xxx
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